Second Wedding Etiquette: The Dos and Don’ts

Second Wedding Etiquette: The Dos and Don’ts

Are you planning your second wedding? If so, congratulations! A second wedding can be just as beautiful and meaningful as a first, but it’s important to avoid making some common mistakes. Here is our list of dos and don’ts to help make sure your second wedding is perfect.

Second Wedding Don’ts

Don’t Rush Your Planning Process

When planning a wedding, second-time brides and grooms often feel pressure to hurry up and tie the knot. But don’t let anyone rush you into making decisions that don’t feel right for you both. So what if it took you a little longer to find the perfect venue or decide on your menu? All that matters is that you end up with a day that truly reflects who you are as a couple.

Don’t Invite Everyone From Your First Wedding

If you’re tying the knot for a second time, it’s important to remember that not everyone invited to your first wedding may make the cut for round two. While some may feel slighted by their absence, try to remember that it’s ultimately your day, and you have the right to choose who will share in your special moment. If you didn’t invite someone to your first wedding or have since had a falling out with them, don’t risk any potential drama by adding them to the guest list. Stick to those who know and support your love story, and let go of any guilt.

Don’t Skimp on the Details

When planning a second wedding, it can be tempting to cut back on the details and go for an intimate, low-key affair. However, ignoring the little things can lead to big regrets down the line. Even if you are combining households and have a smaller guest list, make sure to put thought into every aspect of your wedding day.

Second Wedding Dos

Do Choose the Right People To Be There With You

Surround yourself with positive individuals who will lift you up and make the celebration more enjoyable. At the end of the day, it’s your wedding—don’t let anyone else dictate the guest list or who should stand by your side on the big day.

Do Set the Tone for the Day

Remember that this day is about celebrating your love with your spouse and closest friends and family. Let everything else fall into place as you create an event that reflects who you are as a couple. By setting the tone with your choices, you’ll be able to create an unforgettable celebration of love.

Do Make It Personal

Forget about impressing other people and focus on creating an occasion that you and your partner will cherish for years to come. Whether it’s a more intimate gathering with only close friends and family or a big bash with all the bells and whistles, make sure it reflects who you are as a couple.

Do Have Fun

Second weddings can often come with feelings of stress and pressure. With a previous marriage, some may feel the need to make everything bigger and better than before. But while planning your big day, it’s important to remember one thing: have fun!

Do Remember Why You’re Doing It All Over Again

Amid the chaos and stress, it’s important to remember why you’re doing it all over again. It’s because you and your partner have committed to spending the rest of your lives together—everything else is just extra. So don’t sweat the small stuff, and remember to focus on what truly matters—celebrating your love with those closest to you.

Do Document It All

Investing in quality documentation of your wedding will ensure the memories last forever. Plus, think of all the fun you’ll have reliving the day through stunning photos and video footage. Whether for a small ceremony or a lavish affair, documenting your second wedding is one investment you won’t regret.

Planning a second wedding can be just as daunting as planning your first, but with the right advice, it can be just as beautiful. Our list of dos and don’ts will help you ensure that everything goes smoothly and that your day is perfect. Remember to take your time in making decisions, invite the guests you want to invite, and document every moment!

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Everyday Bride

Freelance Writer
October 12, 2022

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