5 Reasons Not To Have an Engagement Party

5 Reasons Not To Have an Engagement Party

Your marriage is a joyous occasion that you and your friends and family celebrate with gusto. But what about an engagement party? Though it sounds like fun, it may be more of a burden than you’d expect. So here are five reasons why you should skip the engagement party and simply celebrate your nuptials at your wedding.

It Can Be Expensive

So you’ve just gotten engaged and are thinking about throwing an engagement party. Before you start sending out those invites, consider this: throwing a big bash for your engagement can really break the bank. While it may seem like a good way to celebrate with friends and family, the costs can quickly add up between venue rental fees, decorations, food, drinks, and entertainment. It may be a wise financial decision to skip this party. But don’t worry! There will be plenty of others.

It Can Be Stressful To Plan

Engagement parties can also be unnecessarily stressful. You have to find the perfect venue, outfit, and menu, then send out invitations and deal with RSVPs. And let’s not even talk about juggling family dynamics and guest list drama. So why put yourself through all that stress when it’s not even a requirement? Skip the engagement party and use that time, energy, and money to plan your dream wedding instead. There will be plenty of opportunities for celebrating once the big day arrives.

Guests May Not Be Able To Attend

When deciding whether to throw an engagement party, one factor to consider is the ability of your guests to attend. Maybe some live far away and can’t make the trip, or perhaps they have prior commitments. Don’t spend time and money on a party that only a fraction of your loved ones can enjoy!

You May Not Want the Extra Attention

Let’s be real—engagement parties can be a bit extra. Do you really want to be the center of attention and have all eyes on you for an entire evening? If your family and friends still want to celebrate, you can all gather for a casual dinner or drinks. And if anyone asks why you didn’t have a party, just say that you wanted something laid back. Don’t be afraid to embrace simplicity. After all, marriage is already a big deal!

It’s One More Thing To Do Before the Wedding

The engagement party is another event to plan and add to your already bustling wedding to-do list. And while it may seem like a necessity in the wedding planning process, it’s optional. Do you really want another stressor before your big day? Instead, why not use that time and money for something more enjoyable, like a relaxing vacation or some pre-wedding pampering with your bridesmaids? Go ahead and save yourself some extra planning headaches and skip the engagement shindig.

While there are many reasons to have an engagement party, there are also several reasons why you may not want to throw one. An engagement party can be expensive and stressful, and guests may not be able to attend. Additionally, you may not want the extra attention that comes with throwing a large celebration. Plus, an engagement party is just one more thing to do before the wedding. If any of these concerns resonate with you, it’s OK to skip the engagement party and celebrate in other ways.

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Everyday Bride

Freelance Writer
October 19, 2022

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